Really!!!

It’s 9.20 am and the almighty A already has two detentions I dread that bing from my phone 🤣

What do I do with her last night I removed her phone and Apple Watch hoping that would help but still the detentions flow in and she is booked up all the way through till November now ….. so I move her bed into school as she obviously likes it so much 😱

A has always been hard work right from toddler and I have come to the realisation that I spent a lot of time passing ting her bad behaviour in public I just gave into what ever she wanted to get her to behave so I didn’t feel embarrassed.For some reason in my head if she had a tantrum in public I was a bad mother.As I said previously I do have an older daughter G who I consider to have had a normal child hood we had our ups and downs in her teen years but isn’t that normal?

so it’s not like I was a first time parent I was just 10 yrs older and obviously not wiser lol We have given everything the girls wanted or needed so much so you could say they are spoilt but with the big age gap it was easy to do,they are my life.

I’m just rambling today Getting out what keeps going around in my head….let’s see how many more detentions the day brings 😖